The pros—the ones building sustainable, freedom-filled businesses—aren’t constantly starting over. They’re not burning it all down every time something feels “off.” They’re mastering what works. Because maturity in business looks like staying the course long enough to let your results compound.

So, yes. Ruin the friendship.
Be the happy one. The confident one. The “I actually love my life” one.

If that ruins the friendship, then maybe it wasn’t built on authenticity to begin with.

We’ve been sold this lie that when you’re stuck, you just need to “push through.”
But pushing harder when you’re drained is like hitting the gas on an empty tank.
You’re not going anywhere faster — you’re just burning fumes.

Here’s the 3-step recipe I use (and teach my clients) to get out of a funk faster…

Business will mirror back every place you’re hiding. Say the bold truth online? Cool. Now say it at home. In your DMs. In the meeting. How you do one thing is how you do everything. When you stop managing reactions, you start leading—clients feel it, your pricing reflects it, and your results follow.

And here’s what really stung — we weren’t leaving because of my husband’s schedule (which I’d learned to plan around). We were leaving because of mine. That felt like a gut punch. I was furious. The audacity that my work — my calendar — had the power to pull me away from my own life. “Never again will my job decide how much fun I’m allowed to have with my family.”

We all have those moments where something inside of us whispers—or screams—never again. For me, one of those life-altering moments came in 2015, in a tiny Kentucky town, with a pile of moving boxes, a long-distance love story, and a sudden realization: I will never again build my life around someone else’s job.

So here’s my challenge to you: What’s one “never again” moment you’re tolerating right now? And how much longer will you keep sitting in it before you decide—no, but seriously—never again?

It’s not about faking it until you make it. It’s about knowing that you are more than capable of doing what you do—and owning that knowledge. When you step into this kind of self-assurance, you start attracting clients who believe in you, refer you, and hire you again and again.

I used to get a compliment and say, “This? Oh, it’s nothing.”
Now? I say, “Thank you. I love it too. I feel amazing in this.”

That shift doesn’t make me cocky. It makes me free.

Here’s the radical truth:
Funk isn’t failure. It’s feedback.

When you stop resisting the funk, you start receiving from it.
It tells you where you’re tired. Where you’re out of alignment. Where you’ve been overriding your own truth.

This exercise is more than time management. It’s identity reclamation.

It reminds you:

• What you value

• What you’ve already survived

• What you’re capable of creating next

It gives you permission to stand taller—physically and energetically.

When you see your own patterns, choices, and victories laid out in front of you, you feel your own strength.
You remember who’s in charge (spoiler: it’s you).

You're hoping the next review hands you the gold star you’ve been chasing your whole career. But no number, title, or bonus will ever give you what you truly want:
The freedom to live your life on your own terms.

This is the story of my muse. He never graced a stage or held a mic or had a personal brand. But he showed me what it meant to live with deep presence, self-acceptance, and boldness. And I think his life might help you unlock your own.

You don’t have to burn it all down. You just need to stop clinging to what you’ve outgrown so you can finally reach for what is actually yours. That passion project? That dream business? That version of you who feels like she’s wearing the perfect jeans?

She’s already here.

Ready to clean out the closet and claim the career that fits?

But when the right coach meets the right client?
It’s not 1 + 1 = 2.
It’s 1 + 1 = 11.

That’s the equation my client heard from Jessica Zweig, and honestly? It’s everything. That “11” is what happens when coaching isn't just about advice — it’s about alignment. When the energy clicks. When someone sees you fully and holds the match to your inner flame.

Let’s be real: It’s so tempting to walk away when things feel heavy. But here’s the problem—if you don’t pause to process what’s happening, you carry all that unprocessed stuff right into what’s next.

I used to hit mile 10 and want to quit—until I discovered the real secret to finishing strong isn’t willpower, but having something I’m truly excited about. Join me as I share how this simple shift helped me show up for myself in a whole new way.