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What if you've been committed to the struggle or committed to something that actually is not working for you anymore? It's likely become so much easier for you to be committed to the struggle that comes along with playing small because you've become used to it and maybe you're pretty good at it …
What If You've Actually Been Committed to the Struggle?
Who Are You Being In Your Living Room? The Real Measure of Success
Who Are You Being In Your Living Room? The Real Measure of Success
Success isn't a bigger house. It's who you are inside the one you already have. Here's what four client wins taught Kelly about real transformation.
Do You Actually Believe Your Exit Date?
You have the exit date. But do you believe it? Here’s the difference between a plan and a belief, and why it matters more than your spreadsheet.
6 Steps to Take Today If You Want to Leave Your Corporate Job in 6 Months
Ready to leave corporate in 6 months? Here are the 6 steps to take today, starting with the one thing most women skip: their calendar.
The 4 Things Quietly Killing My 10K Months
You Don't Have a Business Problem. You Have an Identity Problem.
Stop blaming your strategy. The real reason you feel stuck in your business has nothing to do with what you know — and everything to do with who you are. Here's what to do instead.
The Real Reason You Can't Look at Certain Photos — And What It's Telling You About Your Life
The Nice Girl Tax: Are You Still Willing to Pay It?
Why Leaving a Job You Want to Leave Feels Harder Than Being Forced Out (And What to Do About It)
Why Owning What You Want Is the Bravest Move You Haven't Made Yet
Why the Slow Burners Are the Ones Who Last: Playing the Long Game in Business
Why "This Shouldn't Be So Hard" Is the Exact Reason It Is — And How to Stop Letting One Thought Derail Every Goal You've Set
What do I keep telling myself should be easier?
Write it down without editing. Let it surface. These thoughts are often so far below the conscious level that we don't even know they're running the show. The moment you see them — really see them — they lose so much power.
You’re Not Overwhelmed — Your Calendar Is Just Lying About Who You Are
Your Voice Is Your Currency: What Happens When You Stop Apologizing For Taking Up Space
Nice Girls Stay Broke: The Real Price of Being Palatable in Your Marketing and Leadership
The worst thing you can do in your marketing isn’t to trigger someone.
It’s to leave no reaction at all.
When your message is palatable:
Nobody’s offended
But nobody’s activated either
Your job as a leader, coach, creative, or founder is not to be universally liked.
Your job is to say the thing that moves the right people from stuck → in motion.
What Really Changes When You Finally Trust Yourself (Especially in Business)
What Good Is Validation If You Don’t Even Believe It? How Self-Belief Changes Your Career, Your Business, and Your Bank Account
No amount of external validation will ever make up for the lack of belief you have in yourself.
From Cluttered Home to Aligned Life: How Decluttering & Feng Shui Help You Leave the Wrong Job (Without Leaving Yourself Behind)
When women decluttered their spaces, they started making braver decisions in the rest of their lives.
When “Fine” Is No Longer Fine: How High-Achieving Women Quietly Outgrow Their Own Lives
I recently interviewed Kate Ferrian, founder of Simply Become It, on the Simply Own It podcast.
Her story is an intense version of something I also see in more subtle ways everyday with women who are feeling ‘fine’ in their life, but losing their sense of self and zest for life:
Stop Crossing Town and Calling It a Life: How Calendar Alchemy Brings You Back to You
The feeling is hard to define - is it empytiness or overwhelm? Lack of fulfillment or an over-abundance of giving all of you to everyone else?
On paper, you’re killing it. You’re the responsible one, the capable one, the woman everyone trusts to “just handle it.” You’ve built a career, a business, a life that looks stable and like everything you wanted from the outside.
And yet, your days feel like you’re just crossing town.
