haters gonna hate: Beware of people who get mad about T-Swift.

Beware of people who get mad about Taylor Swift.

You know who I’m talking about… from those who passively roll their eyes with a “whatever” to those who have a fiery passion of “omg I can’t stand her!”

Why?  For they are likely the very people who will have something to say when you step into bigness too. They’re the ones who will be the people thinking all the judgemental thoughts you’ve been so afraid of people thinking about you:

Who does she think she is?
She’s so attention-seeking.
She’s changed. 
What happened to her? 
…. The list goes on.

To see this is to free yourself from the fear of this. 
To accept “yeah, they’ll probably judge me as I grow too” is actually freeing, not stifling.

Because you know you. And you know that when you step into your bigness it’s not like you’re TRYING to seek attention or all those things you’re afraid of…
No.
What happens is you become magnetizing… and more attention likely veers your way.  It’s not something you can control or run away from. It simply just is.

It’s not your job to control who sees it or to control what they think about it.

When you’re SO you, you’re actually thoughtless. And that is it…. That’s the magnet. Seeing a person just so into LIFE is mesmerizing.

You are screaming “I’ll have what she’s having” vibes. And that can feel so weird for other people… but you’re so into what you’re having that you don’t even notice their discomfort with your comfort of who you are, and enjoyment of what you have.

You're into your partner, you’re into the music, you’re into the food, you’re into the book you’re reading, you’re into your friends, you’re into your business, you're into that beautiful image reflecting back to you in the mirror, you’re into your LIFE.

This makes me think of my dad. He was who he was through and through. The man did what he did without giving two hoots about what other people thought. And the line at his funeral was out the door…..

Turns out Tom & Taylor have a lot in common-- they’re both magnetic and utterly unaware of it all (in the most freeing way possible).

Here’s the secret sauce to you releasing the fear of other people’s judgments:

You're not going to control what they think. 
But you can also see the clues. 
Pay attention to the people around you. 
The ones who are hating on Tay Tay may likely hate on you when you rise up too. 
And the ones who are all about her… they’re going to cheer you on too. 
See that now. Know it, be okay with it, and then move forward (toward the lovers, not the haters, I might add).

While I don’t claim myself as a Swiftie, I am all about it. I’m intrigued and I’m here for it. And I’ll be there for you too.  You’re rising to T-Swift status and you can count me in your corner as one of the peeps cheering you on. ​